well - first tattoo on the lower arm - to me - means that you plan on more tattoos...correct?
so leave this one be and go get some more tattoos
and do a little more research - in todays world with so many artists posting their work steadyon the IG there is no excuse
also - you dont always have to listen to your spouse buddy
you didnt like how it looked - unfinished - so lesson learned - listen to your gut