Coconut oil works great once the tattoo starts to peell.Thats what I use,Im allergic to anything with lanolin in it.Also,I rewrap my tattoo at night for the first three nights.As per my tattooers instructions.Perfect heal,no scabs.
You are not going to find much sympathy here.You are talking to people who love tattoos,and some of us have truly bad ones that we live with.People who see your tattoo don't care what it says,or what it means too you.