no I can't say that I have,
pre-tattoo consultations have always been an important part of the process IMO,
and yes, I for feel a consultation is a very necessary parts of the process, for the us customers AND the tattooer that's going to do the work.
I think you paid all the proper respects already in what you said in your post here. ". I made it clear that I didn’t want to guide the process or throw in a laundry list or requests, rather just want to spend a few minutes hearing the artist’s view for the piece"
that's perfect IMO