@Iwar I'm definitely going to go for something traditional, I'm leaning towards an anchor i like the classic sailor jerry flash that's black and red with the 2 stars on either side. I've been going through some issues lately and coming out the other side now happier and healthier, so I like the idea of marking this point in time and "anchoring" myself to it.
I'm a little torn-up about artists, so I think I'm at the stage where I just need to head into shops and look at their flash and portfolios.