Re your blow out: ohh i see. To me it's barely there, looks like a faint bruise. The tat itself looks great btw!
Re advice about the tattoo artist: thanks, you're right I should wait at least until it's fully healed before getting the big one done. I might reschedule then and hope it doesn't hurt her feelings too much. Not my first tat, had a few other small ones from a few years ago that lasted well, but they were from overseas.