Im absolutely shocked that people would grab or touch anyone male or female to look at their tattoos. I don't understand why anyone would think that is acceptable behavior. I have been guilty of staring, but that was because I just wanted to check their work. Since I don't have any visible tattoos Im sure some people thought I disapproved when the opposite is true.
My wife and I got our first tattoos in the late fall so the weather has kept everything covered. I certainly hope she doesn't get accosted by some weirdo with an opinion.