I think there is another scenario, like what my wife and myself evolved through,
when we got together 12 years ago she liked my tattoos(I had a lot then),and she had zero tattoos,
she also said back then that she would never get one,
well grandkids came a long and she learned a lot more about tattoos and saw the fun I was having and she started getting them on her own free will,
I was fine with her not having any or having them, I love her either way. I'll take her anyway I can get her.
it is cool that we share another common interest now though IMO.I love the fact that we experience it together much of the time.(like both getting tattoos at the same convention)