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I dunno about mountains - but vines, a couple more roses and a setting sun in the middle would be cool.

Echo what @Alicia said. You need to let go of your OCD. :) It will resolve itself eventually. And stop pushing on it! Your tattoo looks well executed but give it time to heal and settle.

We all heal at different rates...but it takes months for us all to heal fully. Give it time and don't over saturate it with lotion - your skin needs air to heal.

I love what you having going so far! Who is doing your work?

Hey @tjb...welcome to the forum. On the flip side, you are now part of a great community that's generally incredibly compassionate, open minded, and less judgmental than most people. The freakout will pass and you'll be planning your next one soon. :)

tattoo remorse is very common, it will pass. I have a large number of tattoos and still get it every time ! LOL

Uno, dos, tres, quatro!

Marquette thing didn't work out?

You need to let it go, as @Gingerninja and @Alicia said. This obsessing is unhealthy and unproductive. Just enjoy your tattoo and start planning your next one.

You're not doing anything wrong. THEY ARE. It doesn't matter if it's a tattoo shop. You're a customer, and you deserve good service. As long as you're not walking around being a douche, they should be treating you like a customer. To me, one strike and you're out--honestly speaking. If they contacted you in advance, apologized, was sincere, contrite, etc...then maybe hey, sure, reschedule. But if they just decided not to show up, or they're pushing you off on someone else, chuck deuces and move on to the next. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I'd keep researching anyway. Seems as if your hard earned money would be better spent somewhere there are good artists, that show up, show prove, and do their job. That's all.

You might try vitamin E, but just a little bit. I had two small spots that took a long time to heal completely and after a few weeks of using vitamin E SPARSELY once a day, they healed completely. Lotion twice a day after three weeks sounds like serious overkill.

Yes, this. I use my lotion for any tattoo only for a maximum of 14 days, two times a day, and I try to let them take air so no tight clothes and such. I never had problems in healing with this method, many tattoo artists of mine too suggest to use Bepanthenol (that's the cream everyone uses here and to me is great) only for 7 or 10 days, but they always say that we all need to find our personal way of healing. 14 days works great for me, bigger and smaller tattoo alike, so I stick with that. Now I am in a phase very similar to yours: my inner calf tattoo done 20 days ago is perfectly cured, but I have still pain on my ankle and a little bit on my calf too. I had back ache for a good month when I did my entire upper back with a totally black phrase! So I think that (understood that the tattoo artist's experience and way of tattooing has its importance, since some of them have a "heavier" way which is more painful) if you get a tattoo on a particular area of your body prone to more pain (muscular or of other types) you may need much more time to heal properly, even if the tattoo itself isn't anymore red or itchy. Mine heal all at a fast rate, no redness or swelling after some days, but in those two areas I experienced and still am experiencing some heckin pain at a muscular (or something else.. I'm not a doctor ahah) level! The advice I could give you is to use your lotion only the days/weeks you are accustomed to, like, 10 or 14 days. If still the tattoo has some problems, you feel pain and such, let it take air and rest.. don't apply more cures to it! By the way it looks awesome!!

Just let it heal. Don't mess with it any more. Don't put anything on it, except maybe some unscented lotion.